1. WOMEN ARE USUALLY VERY CLINGY:
Women usually want attention constantly. They always want the man to say and do nice things. They feel he doesn’t care enough when he appears a little distant and they interpret his “nonchalant” attitude as their unattractiveness. Usually a woman’s aim on average is to be educated and married. Being with a man is so vital it clouds their reasoning. When they are in a relationship, they are too into the man. They want all his time and attention so much so that they literally suffocate him.”hmmmm”
2. OVER EXAGGERATE LITTLE OCCURENCES.
They read meaning into a man’s every action. When he calls, why he calls, what he said etc. Note that men are straight forward. They say what they mean and mean what they say. When a man doesn’t say ‘I love u’ he doesn’t wanna say it, but usually, women go on to read meanings into the nice things he says and does. If there is a break up, they replay every single bit of the past and blame themselves for what they either said or did, or didn’t say or do. It’s usually ‘…..if he said this, he probably meant…’ that’s d issue, if he wasn’t direct, he didn’t mean it.
3. TOO DEPENDENT.
In this society where men as the heads are over exaggerated, women fear to take the initiative because they feel they may end up single. Apparently a lot of rich black women are single. There is a proven stereotype that when a lady rides a porsche car, it reduces her chances of meeting a good young man and a husband generally. Definitely in this part of the world men seldom tolerate competition from their female counterparts, however, women have chosen out of fear and as a result of the norm to be overly lazy and dependent.”be an asset and not a liability”
4. WOMEN TOO OFTEN ENGAGE IN CHARACTER REPAIR.
Once they are off the hook, they pressurize the man to change certain characters they consider ‘not right’. This makes men somewhat resentful.
5. TOO AFRAID TO WALK AWAY FROM A TERRIBLE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF WHAT FRIENDS AND FOES WOULD SAY.
Women on average don’t practice self love, while men on the other hand practice self love to a fault. Women are too engrossed in limiting traditions. All their virtues have been buried in fear of the unknown.
6. LACK OF CONFIDENCE.
When a man meets a great lady, he feels elevated, he feels above his normal self, on the other hand when a woman meets a great guy, she stirs up wells of insecurity within her. She gets so conscious of herself that her self esteem drains out. She worries about her looks, accent and all that. A woman makes a huge mistake when she sees the guy she is dating as ‘too good’. It makes her worship him and drains her confidence even further.
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