1.Always carry yourself with confidence.
Hold your head high and never criticize yourself in front of a man or downplay your talents. For example if you’ve invited him to a party that you’re hosting, don’t criticize your own cooking or the place you call home. Don’t constantly talk about the improvements you think you need to make. Instead talk about the things that make you happy, the things about you and your life you wouldn’t change for the world. Do not apologize for who you are to anyone. Be confident, and happy and he will naturally be drawn to you.
2.Take care of your body.
Looks are important. There is just no way around that. A man has to be attracted to you physically before he falls in love with you or is at least willing to spend some time with you. If you are not looking your best, or think you need to lose those ten pounds start working out and eating healthy. Do not however announce this to him, you don’t want to make it seem like you think you aren’t good enough for him, instead do it quietly with determination; like a lady. Taking care of your body will do wonders for your confidence, next thing you know you may have more suitors than you’ll know what to do with.”Looking good is good business !”.
3.Be financially independent.
A man will know instantly whether or not you see him as a meal ticket or maga and will drop you like a bad habit.”Be an asset and not a liability!”.
4.Do not talk about commitment on the first date, unless you don’t want to have a second date with him.
Commitment is something that arises naturally, once two people really get to know each other and are able to recognize how they compliment each other’s lives. This process can not be hastened through endless “where is this relationship going” conversations. Meaning you can’t verbally convince him that he should commit to you. What you can and should do is show him who you are and hope that you two are compatible. If time shows that you aren’t compatible, you’re actually much better off. Imagine the tears and money you’ll save by not going through divorce in the future. A man who loves you will commit to you. It will not be necessary for you to convince him that he should commit to you, he will figure that out on his own. If he doesn’t, it’s his loss and you should move on.
5.Keep your dates light hearted and fun.
Being with you should be exciting and fulfilling, he should never dread spending time with you regardless of what you’re doing together. Always operate from the premise that you are a catch because you are, and there is no one else like you out there.”You are God’s original and not a photocopy!”.
6.Keep yourself educated and well informed.
Hmmm ladies what do u think? Feel free to ask questions.. let’s chat BlackBerry pin : 24c902c5
Please share someone needs it. I care……Ambassador Utchay 0.
Discussion about this post