1. He Hasn’t Introduced You to Anyone (or Introduces You as ‘My Friend’)
Okay – this is simple. If a man has not introduced you to anybody he knows (and he at least has a mother, a couple of friends, co-workers, or somebody), you are probably not very important to him in his life. Why do I say that? What’s one of the first things you do when you meet someone (that you really like)? Introduce him to your friends or invite him to go with you to different functions. Men – if they love having you around, they will invite you to be where they are. And, in the normal course of those invitations, you will meet people who are in his life. If you haven’t, then beware. And, closely related to this sign is this one:
2. He Doesn’t Tell Anyone About You:
When you talk to him, he may mention conversations he’s had with his family or friends. He tells you all about these conversations where he discusses football games or the basketball finals he watched on tv, the repair he’s having done to his car or how his boss is getting on his nerves. He may even mention to these aforesaid friends and family his weekend plans. But, then you catch on to something – he told them what he was going to do, but not with whom he would be doing those things (namely, you). A simple oversight? An overriding need for privacy? Possibly. But, more than likely, he is not ready for anyone to know of your existence in his life. This could be for a number of reasons, but none of them are good. So, keep up with his mentions of you in his life – it is an important indicator of intent and the seriousness with which he takes your relationship.
3. He Talks About His Future in Terms of ‘I’:
When he talks about where he’s going to live, what job he plans on getting or what school he plans to attend, it’s all about him. “I’m” going to move to south africa or “I’m” going to go to the University of Abuja. Or, even when he talks about things that could conceivably involve you, like a future trip, moving from his apartment to his house or even a movie he plans to see, for heaven’s sake, still no mention of you. What should this say to you? That he’s still thinking of himself in terms of being single. It has not yet occurred to him that the relationship he has with you could become more serious. All those “I’s” and lacks of “we’s” is his subconscious way of telling you that he does not consider you to be his serious partner.”Hmmm serious”
4. He Doesn’t Take You Out:
Sure, he likes spending time with you – but only in the privacy of his home. Or you have limited outings like to the movies (where nobody can see you) You don’t do the ‘big’ dates like charity functions, birthday parties, family events or the like. This should tell you something: This man is not ready to be serious with you. A man who wants to be with you will spend time with you in a variety of places – both publicly and privately. And even if he’s not interested eating out or seeing a movie, he should at least be willing to give it a shot if it means pleasing you. Beware of a man who limits your activity to one specific type of place.”Shine your eye”
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